never been good at this goal oriented stuff - thanks for working with me sg

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Ok, but that is all in the mind.

so we are talking physical things, things you said what a videocamera or a tape recorder would capture

of the three you mentioned, dinner out would be a doable thing. H does not do walks nor will he allow me to kiss him.

now to tie in what jj mentioned about goal-setting rule #2 With this rule, we work on becoming less vague about what we want, and start to break things down into some specific actions. Things that we can SEE happening, and actual behaviors that can occur to let us chart our progress.

my original goal

I WANT TO BE PHYSICALLY INTIMATE WITH MY HUSBAND

1) i will initiate a "date" alone with husband for dinner - sushi
a) best day would be 30th of this month, that is the next time boys are with their mother, and i won't have to find a sitter for them, and i can leave daughter with friends.
b) i will get all gussied up for my date (maybe purchase some thigh highs cause that drives H wild - is this too much?)
c) i will ask him for this date by the 29th

help me, am i on the right track?

kitti