Hey Donna, long time no post. I needed some time away. Hope you are doing much better. As far as being organized, well sorry S.T. but it is just as much the H responsibility as the W. Donna, if the clutter bothers YOU, then have your friend help. If it doesnt, then who cares. This is YOUR new life. YOU get to decide what you want to keep, what you want to purge. Who cares what any MAN thinks. That is not even in the realm of things for us at the moment. Each day is us trying to do the best we can and if that means living in a bit of dirt, well, heck, we are just doing the best we can. I say focus on what makes you smile, not what makes you frown. Let go of those old time ideals that a home has to be perfect....nothing is perfect. This is your time to find you and figure out what makes you tick. If the dishes stack up, so what.
A friend once told me.....broken, take this time and cheirsh it. If you do it right it will be only time you will ever be single again. That means we need to truly learn who we are, learn what makes us happy, and what our boundaries are. This will create a foundation to have a better relationship next time and to make it right when it is suppose to happen. So......let the laundry pile up some and laugh. Enjoy your kids and yourself. The laundry will always be there tomorrow. JMHO.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
