Heh, Trusting, I don't hate you...I kinda feel the same way! I always thought I'd be a "wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy" kinda person, but for quite a while I've been wishing for my H to experience the agony I have gone through because of his actions...I feel guilty about not turning the other cheek, but (although I'm doing gradually better) this pain has been several orders of magnitude worse than anything else I've ever experienced, and I don't think he (or anyone else) should get off scot-free for such absolutely *HORRENDOUS* behavior.

Hmmm, do you think I need to go back to Forgiveness 101? ;\) Perhaps the remedial class...

Peace,
Dawn

Me 45/H 47, no kids
Together since 1985; M/1992
Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001
Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues
H left 11/24/08
minimal contact, no legal action
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