That is right Jeff you do have a life. I would respond to my h many times with only a smile. You don't have to tell what you are doing and you simply don't have to say anything either.

Your response might put your w on the defensive. Sometimes saying nothing and changing the subject might be a better response. Just a thought......

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"