Quote: This is a good beginning. It's positively state, so that's good. It's big though. There are probably a few things that would have to come before this. What are they? What steps would come before phyical intimacy? We can work backwards.
i would imagine that the steps BEFORE physical intimacy would have to include the mind. maintaining a complete unconditional friendship is a start. having a trust between us that this time it is for real. i do believe he needs to KNOW that i have forgiven him for his affair before he will ever be intimate with me again, so i need to prove that
this one i am struggling with. how do i let him know that i have forgiven him? actions? do actions include being a friend? an unconditional friend? i am stuck with this
