Am I eternally hopeful or in denial....?

[glamgirl]

I understand how you feel, but you don't know Gods plan for your life.

I am telling you do you not think my h was distant. He had a restraining order against me. We were not allowed to communicate. I have triumped from those days to what I have now. Anything is possible, but you have to have faith.

It doesn't mean sitting around waiting for things to happen, it means you go on with your life without your h, but when you do go on you do it in a way that your h may find you attractive once again.

You might want to check out a website called divorceasfriends.com

I got much good advice from there. It really saved me in many ways. It wasn't my intent to D, but I got good ideas on how to be friends with my h and not his enemy. So far, it's paying off.

Patience SC patience. You will learn that word well.