Oh my gosh Snodderly that is so right. I know that my h cannot really forget how horrible he feels I treated him. We had authorties involved as well, hence the restraining order h put on me, but it's amazing how he can't seem to understand what he put me through.

He can't make that connection, that my responses were from his behavior.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"