I have no advice for you BM. When my h left he came back once and then left again 2 weeks later. I do think it is hard for them to return, once they are off on their own.

Also when you never see them it's hard to have communication. Whatever decision you make, make it for you. This is about you now not your h.

Thinking of you!

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"