You know I want to be supportive, but Puppy is right. I know it is so hard to detach, and trust me I am not yet where I need to be, but I am learning that it is the only way to remain sane. You need to detach for you D. If W is in this fog, who is taking care of her.
GAL can be anything, going to the bookstore is a start. Go to a movie alone if you want, she doesn't have to know that you weren't there with a friend.
I too have been struggling with the issue that God doesn't believe in divorce and how my faith battles with my needing to set boundaries. Did you read Love Must Be Tough? I really felt that helped me to come to grips with what God would want for me.
If I were your wife, I would be turned off by all the R talks too. She doesn't care right now, you need to start caring about yourself and your D. (sorry) I know you are a loving father who just wants to keep your M together. I understand. You are just going about it the wrong way.
