Good points. Ya, her dad feels like I have reduced her over the years. And I am aware of the mistakes I made. I just can't seem to fix them now. Let me rephrase. I am fixing them, but I can't seem to get her to accept me fixing them.
I actually spend most of the time on the weekends with the kids. She is gone more often than not at her best friends house or with another friend of hers. I do need to go out more. The last time I was going to go out, me and W got into an arguement because she through the D at me again and I had been patient for so long and quiet I finally let my frusturations show. Didn't use my DBing techniques obviously at that moment. I'm sure that set me back quite a bit. I ended up not going out that night because I was frusturated and hurt. The time before that I was supposed to go out with a buddy and he ended up getting sick. lol. I just got offered AC/DC tickets for this Friday and a friend of mine just told me he can't make it. So I don't know if I will be doing anything or not this weekend. My luck, my W will go to her best friends house again and leave the kids with me. I will have to figure out how to entertain them again. Not that I don't love them and enjoy them. But I do seem to get put with them every weekend pretty much eliminating most ideas of plans. My W never misses an opportunity to be gone. She is such a sweetie. Sarcasm there. lol.
I'll figure out something to do this weekend somehow. What about you, are you GAL?
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...