Am I eternally hopeful or in denial....?

[glamgirl]

BM and SC good goals.

First of all SC you don't know your M is over and H doesn't love you anymore. Many things are said that you just can't believe.

When in crisis mode many things are said and done, that doesn't mean they are absolute.

I remember walking in your shoes. So dissappointed on how my h would act or not act. That is the part you need to let go. Have no expectation.

All you can do is work on you and love your h from a distance and unconditionally. It took a long time for me to get where I am at today. It takes a long time to penetrate the wall.

It starts with just one person. Hopefully you offered your h an apology for not checking your phone and making an unneccessary trip. That is how it starts. Being kind and respectful, despite how another may respond.