Purple, how you manage to make me smile even when I'm feeling like I am literally walking through the latrine of hell is just a wonder...thank you...that said, if I had met your H I may have found myself saying a thing or two about dense men and how long it takes them/us to realize what we value - and how to express that value...
They're lucky to be here - the rest of the country seems to be covered in frost and snow.
How are you doing? And thanks to you for the hugs as well...