Jayce my db coach told me to "applaud loudly for the 1% of what h does and says that is positive" and that is not always easy. Sometimes, it's "Mother Teresa" hard to do, especially for things you and I assume our spouses will do that are obvious. My h wants thanks for being here at times, I swear. Also, the book "Five Love Languages" helps in this arena b/c it's what our spouses need that matters there most. Glad it's working for you. Keep it up if it works. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016