I guess my first thread is locked. I must be a regular now. Not sure how to add the first thread string onto this though. Can anyone tell me?

Still no answer from my wife on whether we can try separation. I swear its like pulling teeth.

This has to be about her wanting to be with OM. I have never seen her struggle so much with any kind of option that could help us. I can't get a yes on anything. Even separation. Its just flat out divorce and no other option.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...