I know she's just making excuses to justify her own actions, but I just can't seem to stop thinking that there may be something I can do to change or improve things. Point being, I end up feeling like I need to make her aware of my every move and I need to be at home as much as possible to keep her from dating or from thinking that I am. This is pointless, huh? WP
Totally. Yes, she's making excuses for her actions, just total crap they make up. So you are doing what is guaranteed to push her away even more? You need to GAL and detach, as that's prob. the only way at some point you will ever R, both her wanting to come back and you wanting her back at that point. If you don't detach, focus on your W, and experience all the pain of that, it's not good for you or your M. What GALing are you going to do this week??? Karen
