No, but sometimes I act like I'm 12!!! Sometimes I have to think moving wouldn't be sooo bad. I'm still applying around in this area, so it's not like I'm just trying to move, b/c I do have a bunch of friends & great church here and D9 is happy here too. But....

Try to make this a short story but might wind up H4h length! \:\) H and I had a joint checking account (very bad idea I've now realized) but we stopped using it in December and opened our own sep. new checking accounts mid-December. (I'm requesting the statements to see what he did for sure b/c he had them start sending them to him 5 or 6 months ago) H took out all the money in the account I'm fairly sure in mid-december or maybe even earlier, as 2 checks have bounced written in November. I guess he felt like if they hadn't cleared by mid-December he didn't have to pay them or something wacky like that & he didn't want me to be able to have access to any funds maybe in there also although of course I wouldn't have done that.

One I wrote on November 12 for TKD just bounced and he says he will pay half, so wants me to pay half. He was supposed to pay for the bills prior to the custody/trial hearing which was a month after that check was written, and the judges order actually began January 1st. But I don't want to hose the TKD people (actually friends of mine), cause problems for us taking TKD, and create a big fuss with H over $50 so am thinking I will pay half of that even though legally I shouldn't have to. I don't want to be a doormat, but that's my reasoning. What do you think? I'm thinking I am so glad I'm not going to be married to such a fucktard (is that the right word?) for the rest of my life, so actually happy about that! \:\) Karen

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