It is brave of you to share with the rest of us. How did you come to the decision of shame-based anger? Just curious, mostly about the other types. I think I understand why I had the A, but I always want to understand and have more insight.
Like you, I felt like cr@p on the inside. I never felt like he wanted me. Maybe it was true. But maybe it wasn't. I only looked at the things that confirmed he didn't love me, because he had told me he only married me because I was pregnant. He wishes he had never said it.
Anyway. This is not about me. I'm just curious is all.
Sanderika, I get the same from my H. He *says* he forgives me, but he refuses to recommit to the marriage. Can't say I blame him, except that I blame him.
Mof3, I will wait patiently for you to share your knowledge!
Mel
"Standing knee deep in a river and dying of thirst."
