I believe we all know that we contributed to our marriage breakdowns. The circumstances are all different, however we all share the blame. Not a single poster here has ever said that it was entirely the fault of their spouses.
The difference is you can either work it out or walk out. We choose the positive to work it out. That's why we're all here. Living in the past doesn't help. UNDERSTANDING the past and what led up to the breakup, THEN moving on to correct the wrongs are what we are all here for.
Finding strength in knowing that others are going through the pain you are is what this site is all about.
But we can't MAKE people believe in our own point of views. That would be controlling. All of our sitchs are learning experiences that we must go through on our own at our own pace.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
