FIB,

Just read your posts to me. Thank you. You've helped me more than you know, with the whole other side of so many things. Articulating what it means to you to be a healer, and what you want/need in a mate. Your words as a doctor, father, and a h, and a man in general are so articulate that I was often very moved by them.

(( Side note---Our s22 is a NYC actor and was in a play by Charles Mee called "Big Love"--[not about polygamy]--in one scene, the actors articulate the differences between men and women and it was so evocative and well written-- to see our son perform it made me weep, for so many reasons...You can read it online and look for the long 'speech' by Constantine...when well acted, it's incredibly moving and of course it was well acted)

I hope you don't leave the boards here. It isn't just about whether you can save your M, but also how you help other m's. You do. And you help women more than you know. You have helped me to be a better mother, and woman, and wife. I don't know the future of my m, but when I say that DBing helped me more than any other one thing, you are a big part of that.

No, you won't be single forever. Just hoping you stay on the track you are on as a man, and check with us when you meet "her". You know, to get our approval and all...

Hope this post doesn't break some DB rule. Again, thank you FIB. I always look for your posts to others as well. You help people a lot. I might even print out your thread for my weekly ego boost.

FYI, my old hard drive died some time back so I'll have to hunt for your email address but hope to find it and touch base there. Not sure why they banned it, but anyhow...thanks so much.

((( j- )))



M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change