I understand your point and what you are saying. But what I am saying is that this is it for me. This is the last attempt at getting the man I married back. I'm not trying to get him to change per-say as to figure why he stopped being who he was years ago. If this is it, then tell me. If its not, then let's work together on figuring out where it changed and why. ( for him )
I do think this is a new approach as I always looked for verbal communication before which he was NOT comfortable with obviously. He suggested writing a long time ago, and I agreed.
P.S The reason I re-asked the questions is because he asked me too. I didn't paste the whole email.
