Your h said that "you say once again no sex, well lately everything...revolves around how I do things, so if I screw up, it's over you do not think this is a big deal???" He also apologized for not writing as much as you did and asked for your forgiveness for not answering all your questions. So, you wrote to him again, and re-asked the same questions.
To me, he seems to feel pressured to the point of paralysis. AND, I see your re-sending the same questions to him within what, a day or two(?), as projecting dissastisfaction from you, again. Which is more pressure. I know your goal is to get him to change...but when you see those words in writing, what's your reaction ?
And, is this a 180 for you, really? Seems more like a tactic than a new approach. Maybe semantics and God knows I'd feel crappy if h had not touched me in 5 years. I get that. Just not sure about this approach getting you to your goal. That's my two cents! j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
