Reaping what you sow is - for me - a bitter sweet pill. Yes part of me wants to see H and OW fall apart and experience the hurt and betrayal we have all felt BUT I still love him and I never want any harm to come to him and I never want to see him suffer. I wouldn't wish what I (all all of you) have experienced in the last 3 years on my worst enemy let alone on my husband/STBXH. Does that make me crazy?


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15