Update on separation. She did move out on Friday, January 16, 2009. It was a strange day, and very sad at times, but I got through it, and here I am. She had the kids Friday night, and I got to see them Saturday during the day. She got them again on Saturday night, because I had an event to attend. I got the kids Sunday at noon, and they spent the night with me. I get the kids again tonight so I am looking forward to that.
Not sure how much time to give the separation. The "in limbo" out it really sucks.
I have continued to see my individual counselor, and that helps.
Working on enjoying myself and continuing Getting A Life.
Me: 41 W: 41 Married: 17 years Together: 19 years 16-Sept-2008: "W: I want to move out." 16-Jan-2009: Separated, wife moved out. 31-Mar-2010: W, and kids move back home! D 14 S 12 D 11 S 7