MWG, I did not mean to offend you. I just meant that it seems that your H is in the same place that mine is. They can not decide what they want. I did not mean to say that you enable. I just feel that I am an enabler many times. We have come close so many times of splitting for good then he draws me back in by being nice again.
I know many people believe that I am crazy for not divorcing him, but I still love him and have hopes that one day he may come out of his fog. I just wish I knew the answer. I read the threads hoping to find guidance. You seem like a strong woman who takes care of her family. I was complimenting you, sorry if I offended you.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
