i can only give you the truth, i can't make you believe it
i hope the 2 of you learn to forgive & accept each other & the flaws that comes with....
good bye
You can't possibly give someone THEIR truth, especially based on a few (hundred) posts on a thread on a web site.
You can give yours. You can share your perception, your opinion, your experience. We're all the hero in our own story. I'm sure you're the hero in yours.
If you want to help people here, LISTEN to THEIR truth & offer support & encouragement. Don't try to shove your truth down their throat. It doesn't work.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.