You misunderstand me. As TAL said above, you have every right to FEELthis way. I'm just trying to implore you to not base your DECISIONSon that feeling.
"I don't feel like it" isn't a good framework for making potentially life-altering decisions. Your wife has a very specific problem (one of a few, but the one we're trying to help you address at the moment):
ENTITLEMENT and BEING INCONSIDERATE.
I know it's been almost 2 years. I've been with you almost that long!!! And it's the total exasperation that I feel in many (most?) of your posts that tells me that this specific trait of hers is WEARING YOU OUT, and it eats at your self-esteem and even your manhood. A specific suggestion for dealing with it has been suggested, and I'm only suggesting that you try it REGARDLESS OF WHETHER OR NOT YOU FEEL LIKE IT.
