Well yes, I guess you could respect what he said and only contact him about the estate agents.. but also, looking at my ex's reaction whenever I DO contact him, my RL people say they feel he doesnt have the right to contact me, after what he has done. It would be a shame if you couldnt stay friends.
How about, stop seeing it as pursueing (as you can say I dont want him back) and just treat him like a good mate.. then yuou might be more relaxed and natural about contacing him.
I dashed an email off to my ex today, didnt thikn anbout it, edit it, I felt like I was writing to an old work mate of mine I only see now every few mnths but we email now and then our gossip and joke around a bit.. so thats what I did! Worked much better and felt more natural. I said to my Mum.. should I not send it yet? Wait a day or so? She said. no! Send it! Whats the worst that can happen? He's already gone! Treat it like a converstaion, be normal.. and you know what, he wrote back straigt away, twice !
Anywa, waffling... ! hope you are ok, Al xxxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
