You are going thru that phase where you are "de-beautifying" your wife (sorry, dont know the english word, so I am making my own, LOL). In the begining, when they leave, they are ... amazing, unique, the best thing that happened to us and "how the heck did we cause them to leave?" At least, that was me. Full of guilt and remorse. Then I found myself doing what you are doing now when after a while my H remained out of reach and I felt I had changed and was disappointed that that wasnt enough to bring him home. I got mad, waves of anger I could feel even during my sleep. When that calmed down, I saw him for what he really is (or close). And still thought he was good "enough" for me to fight for him.
What I am saying is, wait, dont do anything when you feel "too much", calm down. The true picture will show and you will know what to do... xxx K
