Thanks guys. Thing is, I just don't feel like doing "the plan" you've mentioned.
H4U,
Forgive me, but you don't GET to treat something as seriously as the end of your marriage, and the potential breakup of your family, on what you FEEL like doing!
Now, you make think it's a crappy idea, and that's fine if you want to dismiss it on its MERITS. But to dismiss it because you don't "feel like doing it," to me, seems petulant, stubborn and irresponsible.
TOTALLY understandable, don't get me wrong -- I've been there, and did the EXACT SAME THING you are -- but still petulant, stubborn and irresponsible.
Life STILL has given you a great big sh&t sandwich. It's never left your plate. You don't get to decide whether or not you feel like dealing with it (other than for short period of time where necessary rest, recovery and planning is needed).
