M, It doesn't matter whether they forgave us for what we did or they don't harbor any ill feelings, they will still bring up the incident whenever they feel like they need an escape from facing reality and what they did. They never forget it. It's hard wired into their brains like a computer glitch that can't be repaired until the entire system has gone done and been rebooted, i.e., just like the mlcer needs to have his/her entire system go completely down and then be rebooted.
It's a crying shame they can't seem to let things go and I am almost 99.9% sure that they all do it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
