Karen, I've done nothing to GAL. Like I said, I just got a car on Saturday, so I did go out to Barnes & Noble on my own for a few hours, but I don't think that really counts as GAL. Other things I do is work extra hours to advance on the job, but my W uses that against me and claims that she doesn't know what I'm doing "all of the sudden" staying late at work. She says that for all she knows I could be dating, so why shouldn't she. I've told her repeatedly that I'm not even remotely interested in dating nor do I think it is acceptable before God when we are still married. I know she's just making excuses to justify her own actions, but I just can't seem to stop thinking that there may be something I can do to change or improve things. Point being, I end up feeling like I need to make her aware of my every move and I need to be at home as much as possible to keep her from dating or from thinking that I am. This is pointless, huh? I'm going over a friend's house for dinner this Friday. But nothing really significant I guess. I'm also very afraid to rock the boat, b/c she still lives w/me and I still need her help financially. I think it will be much easier to focus on me when she moves out.
