The reason I have chosen e-mails ( for the time being ) Is my H is VERY uncomfortable talking about sex etc... So, I am hoping that after awhile of e-mailing and talking it won't be such a scary subject. Also, I found when I was waiting for a verbal response he froze because of what he felt was pressure. I am however assuming that, but I am pretty sure. He wouldn't know what to say and it was like he was facing a firing squad. This way, its at this own pace, and he can say what he wants without worrying. It is impersonal to a certain degree, but I hope it will lead into verbal conversations eventually. Right now, your W may be thinking >>> " OMG, What do i say? ( or ) What does he want from me?" Then they are so afraid to make things worse by not saying the right thing ( what they think we want to hear ) So, they say nothing and hope it just goes away.... Just a thought. I say these things because I think your W and my H share the same way of dealing with things.
(( MY 2 cents )) (( Cinco )) Hang in as we always say :P
