Just wanted to chime in here on something Snodderly said:
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I think that once we set our boundaries and then something happens and we refer to the proper authorities or they are called in, it become embedded in their brains and they can't forget it. It's like we are never suppose to do such things to them and yet, it's okay to do what they've done to us.
This is so true. My H couldn't believe it when I called the cops on him. He was so mad he had to retaliate and call the cops on me for no reason at all. His madness was one of the big reasons I wanted to move to NJ. At first he was going to allow me to go but then put up a fight about it. Every once in a while he brings up the fact that he can never forgive me for trying to move to NJ with the boys. He made me out to be the evil one in all of this and he the victim. Um, what about what he did to me? That was ok?
These MLCers are so much alike.
I am sorry MWG that things aren't moving much faster. Thanks for the hugs on my thread, here are some for you. ((((((hugs))))))
