Yesterday I came home and told her that I hated what she was doing to our family, I hated the decisions she was making, and that this is not what I want and that she is destroying our family and I absolutely hate it. I followed that up by saying I'm not starting a fight or argument, but I just want her to know how I feel. Her response to that was that she was going to go get her nails done. She went out later that night and didn't come home till about 1 am. WP
I think in their fog or soup or whatever it is they can't listen to logic or reality or morality or anything like that. I tried reaching my H by logic at one point, and then realized that was a cheeseless tunnel.
I do think you reap what you sow. In my case, I have 2 wonderful children that love me and will always be there for me, and my H has traded our family for an OP that has already been married 3 times and cheated on her 3rd with my H. Do I think they will be happy together? I seriously doubt it. The kind of person that would become an OP is not a normal person I don't think.
I do believe that God will work through this and make you a better person. Your life will be better in the long run even if you don't feel that now. I am a stronger, healthier, more grateful person and you will be too. You need to stop focusing on your W and her craziness and focus on you instead and working on yourself. (((((WP))))) What GALing have you been doing lately? Karen
