No....I currently don't have a game plan. I'm just going to continue to get my life & finances in order, focus on work (my work performance wasn't impressive during 2008 due to the stress of the seperation).
Regarding wondering if I can fit W into my current life....I actually ment not enought time for any relationship. I'm just so busy with all my responsibilities, there just dosn't seem to be any free time to devote to any new commitments.
Also, although I originally held out hope for a reconciliation, I don't know if I want to risk fully trusting W again. What would stop her leaving again in the future if things didn't meet her expectations. I don't trust that she would sit down with me an communicate effectively what the issues are.
Remember, she just moved out 5 minutes after she informed me she wasn't happy...no discussion whatsoever. I don't think I am willing to put myself in the same position with her again. At this point, if she did want to start working towards repairing the M, I would probably say no based on my lack of trust in her & that I don't respect her like I used to due to her poor decisions. She has shown a huge lack of common sense and I don't really have time for fools.
She would need to do a lot of work to convince me otherwise.
H - 39 W - 38 M - 10 years, Dated 1 LYBNILWY - 5/17/2008 Moved out - 5/18/08 no kids - 2 cats
