FIB, first, thank you, my friend, for posting to me.
There is no separation in my state. And it is very easy to get a quick divorce. They push it through to make it go as quickly as possible. I do not think h is with ow anymore, but I am not sure.
But to answer your questions:
1. No, he is not making any attempt at reconciliation. 2. His presence is making it difficult for me to advance my efforts. I am GAL, but he is always in the back of my mind when he is at home. 3. I am thinking that separating MAY benefit by giving space, etc.
But I would have to file. He has ruined us financially already. I could not take the chance that he would do evenmore drastic damage.
If I could file for separation, I would. I think the filing is what is holding me back. And fear of being unable to support myself.
