Only God knows the answer to that. H is at a huge disadvantage here in many ways. I learned that if you file for a D and have been separated (legally or not), then the courts can go back three years and say that he would owe for child and spousal support. I am not at that level to file for a D nor do I have intentions of doing so.
However, only H can determine his fate, not me. Right now I am concentrating on myself and my kids.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19