Honestly, if he was not strong enough to resist the temptation of having an affair, then he is not strong enough now to break it off.
His motto lately has been that he does not want to hurt anyone, and someone is going to get hurt.
Then he told me he has to watch his you know what for fear I would call the police on him -- we had discussed this several times in the last year and he knows I would not do that, but lately he sees me as a threat and I make him nervous as well.
MWG, I don't mean to sound like a smart A, but how in the world do you hope that your marriage will be put back together if you don't think he will break off the A?
