Maybe possibly, it'll be with each other, as that DOES happen in some cases. Your w may get help and may someday see things more clearly. You may also continue to grow as a man. Regardless, I seriously doubt you'll be alone all your life.
I seriously doubt this. If you could only see the way my STBXW carries herself...the downtrodden look..the cold shouldering I get...the anger.
It would never happen.
You know what the funny thing is 25. It is my WIFE...who went outside the marriage. It was MY WIFE...who made the decision to NOT RECONCILE...or even TRY TO RECONCILE. Although I have, on multiple occasions in the past, apologized...told her I would prioritize our marriage....admitted that changes should be made...did most of them..it was my wife who shirked her responsibility and to this day accepts NO ACCOUNTABILITY for where we are.
Am I saying it's her and not me. No...nowhere near that.
Originally Posted By: 25
What IF, just what if, you find someone else down the road? What if you end up in a happy m? I mean, that has some value, doesn't it? Wouldn't that be something your kids could look to that is better than what they are seeing now?
No doubt..although I don't think I will marry ever again. Although any type of R breakup hurts, I would never want to go thru a D process again. What did Spock say in Star Trek...that beauty is transitory but love survives?
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Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
