Thank you. I was wondering what happened to your thread. I've sort of been MIA myself; I no longer use the home computer b/c I don't want my W knowing about this site, so my time here has decreased a bit. My W does not have the same reaction as your H does. I confronted her about the cell conversation that I overheard, and her response was "maybe if I would stop snooping I wouldn't hear things I didn't want to hear." And then she even denied saying the most egregious things that I heard w/my own ears. She's simply unrepentant. Yesterday I came home and told her that I hated what she was doing to our family, I hated the decisions she was making, and that this is not what I want and that she is destroying our family and I absolutely hate it. I followed that up by saying I'm not starting a fight or argument, but I just want her to know how I feel. Her response to that was that she was going to go get her nails done. She went out later that night and didn't come home till about 1 am. Said she was with a girlfriend, but I know better. I didn't ask. It doesn't matter b/c she doesn't care. I'm just stuck in this awful place and I hate it. I hate my life right now. I have this huge hole in my heart and I can't seem to fill it, and all the while she is filling it w/very shallow things. I bought my own car the other day, but now I just found out that I need her to sign on the docs. Also, she can't get approved for an apartment on her own, so if she signs for my car I'm probably going to have to return the favor. I don't want bad things for her, but I do want her to reap what she sows in this. If she doesn't, she'll never really see what she's done and she won't repent before God. Anyhow, I keep praying and reading and trying to figure out what God's plan for me is in all of this.
