Kassie, you post what issues or problems you are having, thats all. We will help you the best we kknow how. I have been given excellent advice, have read too manty books and have been going through it for 5 months. We all share a bond here and we will help you and guide you.
Silva, yeah I have the same connection with W, still feel it. My advice to you is this, swim, do not look over your shoulder for the helicopter right now. I have 31 years that apparently flew out the window so I know how you are feeling right now. But take the next couple of weeks and swim, slowly and steadily without listening for the helicopter. It is very hard. the best advice I was givine recently is you can not detach untilk you break the chain that is holding you. Wehn you feel this way or start to look back, tell your self "Stop it" out loud. It does work.
It is hard for all of us, I don't want my situation to go on for years i want it over now. But do not sit back and wait for it. I have just posted some good advice so I will throw this out to all of you/us:
"You are defined by your actions today. Who you are is defined by the adversity you face and how you choose to handle it. Good things take care of themselves. When the situation becomes seemingly impossible, you can turn and walk from it, and no one will think the less of you. But later in life, will you doubt that choice? Take every situation head on, do the impossible, because only you can tell if it is worth having or not. Define yourself today, not tomorrow.
