Well, we have never really had conflict like this. What I went thru is when the kids were younger, he would come home from work, and I would ask him to help me to enforce certain rules. I was wiped out, had no car, homeschooled the kids back then. His response: I don't want to hear about it.........that sent me reeling but I would not take it out on him. I would talk to a good friend and air my frustrations.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19