your H is so violently depressed hes almost delusional? was he always then type to avoid a conflift before. youre rifht he sit atop that fence until one of you kicks it out from under him


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest