Tawnya, hope and davidswife. HUGS!! Thanks all for your encouragement and very very generous words. I am uplifted by your confidence in me. If you gals have time, could you help Can it Work out. He has a thread in Newcomers called 'I think I may have blown it'. http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1697594#Post1697594

His W is about to leave and he is very emotional right now and needs support.

Me:39
H:40
S:9
D:7
First Bomb ONS:June 07
Second Bomb OW: March 08
Separated: March 08
M:15 yrs
T:18 yrs
H deep into A with OW
Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09

'Yes, I can.'