Dear 25.....I am taking my morning time to write to you. For many years, you have often posted incredible things to me. It is quite apparent the thought that you put into your posts and, also, VERY OBVIOUS how much time you take to write them. You have supported me both spiritually and emotionally during the last two years plus of my life which were undoubtedly the worst ever. I want to take a moment and just say thank you.
You should never underestimate what several paragraphs of yours can do for a person. Ofttimes it would be your letters that would lift my heart and spirit after taking a verbally abusive attack from my STBXW. OTOH, it took strength to read some of those posts that, on the outside, appeared to be supporting my wife, when all they were really trying to do was show a woman's perspective on how MY stuff could be perceived. I learned.
I always read your comments..whether they are on my thread or others. They give perspective and I daresay that it is critical for us men to read the posts of women such as yourself so that we grow and better understand our differences.... so that we do NOT repeat those little things that destroy attraction or impede communication.
In other words and as said on someone elses thread, rock on dude FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
