1st bomb - H moved out in Oct 2007, I pursued for 6 months. 2nd bomb - May 2008, I found out he had been on holiday with ow. H said he no longer wants to try. I found DBing and backed off. November 2008 - I find out he has moved in with ow. Jan 2009 - we put the house on the market, but h is responding more positively at the moment.
So, after h and I putting the house on the market last night I feel quite exhausted today. I have felt strong urges to reach out to h last night and today but I have resisted, I have been looking for excuses to contact but I realise this is a cheeseless tunnel. As h left he parted with 'let me know if you hear anything from the agents' so I will listen to him and only contact on that basis for the moment. We have had a huge amount of contact over the past week so I will let him digest that for a while. Whenever I have tried to build on 'momentum' before it has never worked so this will be a learning curve for me.
