I wonder what the hurry is also. The man is deployed for 11 more months with thousands of men :-). As you suggested, I will focus on myself and what I need for my own peace of mind.
Me:28, first M H: 33, second M Married: 08/08 Bomb: 10/08 H filed D and deployed: 12/08 Served: 04/09 I deploy: 07/09 Hearing date: 08/09
