You are doing just fine. Don't worry about posting in other places on the board, just let us know how you are doing in here if that makes you feel easier. The lingo, well again, if you don't understand something, just ask. It's bad enough going through a relationship breakdown without having to worry about messing up in here. None of us bite each other, we are all here to help.
With regards to your sitch. It sounds to me like your H is quite controlling and childish. If you don't do something he wants you to, he sulks (goes quiet) or argues with you to make you feel bad. That is NO way to carry on. What you need to do is to NOT let what he does affect you. Only worry about you at this moment in time. Get yourself mentally stronger and that way you will be better equipped to deal with things. It will also make him think if you don't repsond to his actions. He will hopefully get the idea that you are NOT going to be pushed around and that you are a strong person in ourself. That is ALWAYS attractive.
