I am in need to the expert DBs :-) This is the most recent e-mail my H in response to a letter I wrote him a few weeks ago...


I'm glad that you feel something good came out of our relationship. I'm happy that I helped you overcome some obstacles in your life. I hope that you can continue to see the good things, forget the bad things and allow each of us to move on past this relationship. Let's move on with no bad feelings and wish each other the best. I hope that you have a wonderful life and meet someone that makes you happy. I'm sorry that that someone is not me and never will be but you will meet someone better, someone much better than me who will make you happy. I appreciate your thoughts but I do not want to be married to you. Please let me go. Please let me move on with my life. Please let me out of this relationship. I'm glad that you don't feel like a prisoner any more so please don't try to hold me hostage.


Thoughts? Advice? If I respond, what do I say?

Me:28, first M
H: 33, second M
Married: 08/08
Bomb: 10/08
H filed D and deployed: 12/08
Served: 04/09
I deploy: 07/09
Hearing date: 08/09