Dude

She had that chance (we all did!!!); she could have fixed it before she broke it!!, like your wife, my wife, & Mellenmack. "I think she was reacting to me handling things poorly"
What do you think her husband is doing???? Reacting to her handling things poorly, he's in pain, he's acting out, he needs a friend not a unfaithful wife who wants him to grow in 6 months what took her to do in 7 years, that's not right

I did over 8 years of damage to my wife & you know what, we are in year 3 just after the EA/PA I at least owe her that time.

She can't undo the years of pain she has went through in 6 months & the growth she has seen in 7 years can't be done in 6 months.
do me a favor take a gallon of water & make it fit into 22oz cup, wait.... what's the problem? why can't that be done???


WAW 32
ME 38
D11, S9 & D2
Together 10/96
Married 4/2000
Bomb 4/2006
PA1 9/2006
PA2 11/2006
I now know I want out, With my Kids!!!

After a year, love is a choice not a feeling!